If you really want to be blessed: douse the fire of your ego and your temptation. Strip yourself of all the dispositions and tendencies that you have been carrying. Because of which you are, who you are right now. And you are not happy, that’s why you’re seeking blessing, aren’t you?! And this eagerness, the curiosity within to know about yourself, is fine. But ‘seeking blessing’ just to get a higher ranking or position and power and money– will certainly restrict you as a human being. You would never be able to reach the zenith of your potential that you could actually be.